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Friday, January 14, 2011

6 degrees.. (?)

we have always come across this 'comforting n consoling' (n at times, 'not so comforting n consoling') terms whenever we come across someone ridiculously similar in appearance with ourselves or with someone else (in this case,its more profoundly enhanced if the 'someone else' happens to be a person of extremely "common" roots n belongings with nothing to signify his/her's 'starry' appeal or association of that order).. n its the ever legendary phase--"6 degress or seperation".. or there's even one that i remember being told--"there exists 7 look-alikes in different parts of the world at a time".. but the one that takes the cake is this--"your doppleganger is just a sneeze's distance from you"..umm, im sorry, i cant provide with its authenticity..

but still, its ridiculous anyway to see a mirror image of yourself in front of you..n it gets more ridiculous if that mirror image is more in terms (or even entirely in terms) of the behavioural aspects (including the habits, the thoughts n even the ideas).. n i remember, i had a tough time dealing with it when i was struck by it the first time.. not because, the person (in this case, a He) was a mirror image in terms of looks (phew! thankfully!)but, he was so strikingly similar in everything else..this "everyting else" includes (or rather, then included) the respective "situations" in which both of us were stranded in your "personal lives", our conversation over songs which were again surprising, n the manner in which both of us used to react to given situations! what what made it all the more difficult was the fact that he was my first "crush"n i was always "passive" (thanks to my fear of consequences)..

but then, how will you react if you come across this kinda situation that involves a certain someone's spoken lines n some lines in a novel, both of which were spoken (respectively) for the same "situation" n in the same "context" of the respective happenings?

"I want you however you want to be wanted".. this is the line from the novel..
"i want what you want".. this is the line i was subject to.. exclusively..

 the context in which the respective lines were addressed to their respective addressees happens to be the same.. n this is exactly the reason that bummed me out! (i beg your pardon for the use of the language.. im seriously overwhelmed)
in this case, the person concerned n I, have almost everything in common..n everything is screeching of "same-pinch" n "copy-cat" to the extent that it has now become a way of life..we're accustomed.. n we're at peace with it..each being in sync with each other n with this "commonality" respectively (per se)..

but, for me, the same "mirror image" of the words n its underlying contextual situation, is gonna take sometime to come to terms with..

"i want you however you want to be wanted"

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