something else to blame?

i cant explain the way i behave
coz thats something i believe is innate
but a question crops that is difficult to evade
is it really innate or something else to blame?
for every actions has its reactions
all complete with the views, the opinions and all the contradictions
and yet, unpleasant as they may be
its always the contradictions that feed the discussions
often leading up to disagreements
tending towards arguments
and thereby making a heavy weather for the "journey to the end"
coz what follows is sheer confusion
as the initial point of discussion has long been forgotten
and with so much of views and opinions
im never too far from another "discussion"
and it starts all over again
is it really innate or something else to blame?