we believe in nothing mainstream.
we belive in rocking the unheard and unseen of.
and we are the kings in that!
so, keeping the birthday cake as a surprise till midnight is so mainstream, that, all care to keep it a secret is abandoned when yours truly enters with a big box and rings the bell knowing fully well as to who's going to be on the other side of the door!
and, waiting till midnight to cut the cake is so pedestrianly mainstream, that we do it well before the clock strikes twelve!
doesn't matter who gets the cake originally. doesn't matter even if yours truly doesnt get to be the one to make the first cut either (well, one side-effect of climbing up the age ladder).
wherever there be cake, yours truly always ends up being on the receiving end of it, with mouth wide open!
the tradition should always continue. else, how would it continue as one?
and the biggest advantage of being nothing like mainstream? well, you get to have your dinner with dessert.
meaning, the dessert becomes the dinner itself!
ain't we grand!
p.s. btw, the candles were defnitely blown by the birthday lady! that's also the tradition! :-P so, we stick to that bit.
p.p.s yours truly definitly believes in the concept of 'return-gifts'. a staunch believer. period.